Wednesday, 21 January 2015

{Proud Moments} - January 2015

There's a lovely little thing that happens every month in the 'Future of Downs' Facebook group. 

We celebrate our children's milestones and share what's made us proud. We do this on the 21st to represent the three copies of chromosome 21 present in Down's syndrome.And there's no such thing as an achievement too small. 
There's a whole lot of love and pride bursting from the members every month - and quite rightly! 
Proud moments happen everyday.  I'll be sharing ours on the 21st of each month. 

Ella is suddenly into jigsaws in a big way and can now put a simple 4-6 piece puzzle together by herself. 

And as I've watched her, I've seen her practice and utilise lots of different skills. Problem solving, being focused on a task, picture matching, patience, perseverece, hand eye coordination and fine motor skills. 

My proud moment for Lucy has been seeing her moved up into the toddler room at nursery, along with a few of her friends. She was beginning to rule the roost in the baby room so it was definitely time for her to move on. She's settling in well and making even more friends - she talked about 'Thomas' all the way home today! 






Monday, 19 January 2015

Living Arrows 2015 {3/52}

My East Coast American cousins will wonder what we're all so excited about this side of the pond... 

But we've had SNOW!! 

Not as much as they're used to but enough for a snowman (or two) and a few snowballs. It kept the whole family happy for a couple of hours! 

Lucy has never seen snow before and was a little wary to begin with. And yes, that is a tomato she's clutching - they were supposed to make up the snowmans mouth but we couldn't prise them out of her little hands... 







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From week 4 of #livingarrows, the weekly posts will be hosted on sister blog 'Lulu and The Bean' 
https://luluandthebean.wordpress.com/

Monday, 12 January 2015

Living Arrows 2015 {2/52}

This weekend I got to spend some time with just Ella while my mum looked after Lucy. An adventure with my big girl...

Her nursery had organised a trip to see 'We're going on a bear hunt' at The Lowry theatre. So we left the house early and headed to the tram to meet her friends. I have to confess this was what I was most excited about! Despite having lived in Manchester for nearly 15years I have only ever been on the tram once and that was just a quick hop across the city centre. To now be able to get a tram from South Manchester to Salford Quays is amazing. And Ella would have been more than happy to just sit on the tram (maybe we'll save that for another day!) she loved looking out of the window and pointing things out. 

It was really windy, cold and wet on Saturday and Ella was really good on the whole but had a little bit of a meltdown on the platform before we set off. The wind was so strong and I don't think she quite understood what was happening or where we were going. Other than that she sat well on the tram, listened really well to my instructions throughout the day and sat and got involved in the play for pretty much the whole hour it was on. I hadn't taken the pushchair with me as I knew the walking was short distances but it's still a gamble with Ella and what mood she's in! She can just decide to sit and not move/lie down/drag on your arm and not walk properly or just demand to be carried (not good for my back now she's so big). Thanks to Cath and Charlotte for helping me with hand holding, swinging and words of encouragement to Ella! 





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Thursday, 8 January 2015

Unexpected Thanks

I used to think I was a pretty organised person. As the years have progressed and I now have more responsibilities (and less time) I am slowly coming around to the realisation that how organised I think I am and how organised I actually am are two completely different things... 


And at Christmas I pre-empted my state of disorganisation and decided I didn't have the time (or the energy) to write and send Christmas cards this year. But I didn't want to do nothing so I chose to make a small donation to a charity instead. 



Knowing that there were lots of families across the country with a child poorly in hospital I chose to donate to Ronald Macdonald House Charities.  Ronald Macdonald House provided us with the facilities to stay close to Ella when she had her heart surgery at Alder Hey and when she was poorly afterwards.  I will never forget that week as long as I live and will always be thankful to the whole team at Alder Hey who looked after us and so many families that we know.  It made such a difference knowing we had a room, space to talk and (for me especially) somewhere to go, as I found being with Ella on ITU particularly hard.


It's never easy having a poorly child, but it's somehow even more difficult at Christmas.  We are lucky that we had both our girls healthy and home with us, which was unfortunately not the case for so many families. As Christmas approached, my thoughts were with all the parents and children that RMHC was helping. The charity that enables families to be together whilst continuing their great work providing 'A Home away from Home'. 

So I gladly donated my £25 and didn't really think much more of it. Until today when I received a personal and handwritten thank you card from the charity...



It's made my day!








Monday, 5 January 2015

Living Arrows 2015 {1/52}

Thought I'd start off this years Living Arrows project with some pictures of both girls, so I can look back at the end of the year and see how they have grown and changed.

Here's my biggest girl who just wanted to stay up late to practice her threading... 

Who am I to say 'no' to this face?...




And Lucy, who's favourite spot is on the sofa in the bay window, usually standing and looking out while giving us a running commentary of what is going past the window...


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Tuesday, 30 December 2014

Another year over...

The presents have been opened, lots of food eaten and lots of fun with family has been had. Now the decorations are down as we say farewell to Christmas and await the beginning of a new year...  A good time to look back and reflect over 2014...


As the year began, I had a young baby and a toddler. Twelve months on, I now have a toddler and a pre-schooler! They still love one another as much though...

              January 2014                                                           December 2014

Over the last year, I've got involved and supported several causes, projects and campaigns.  Something I never thought would happen when I started writing the blog 4 years ago.  Here are some of the things I've got involved in during 2014 and look forward to continue giving my support to in 2015...

The Living Arrows project over at I heart Snapping...Taking a photo a week of what it means to have children in your life (OK so I didn't quite manage to keep up with this all year but I did enjoy taking part and I'll try and do better in 2015!).  So more Living Arrows starting in January.


Living Arrows photography project run by 'I heart snapping'

February is both congenital heart defect and also feeding tube awareness week.  We showed support (along with Ella's nursery friends) by wearing red for raising awareness of congenital heart defects and I shared and re-shared Ella's feeding story across social media again getting some lovely feedback (For those that haven't read it, you can do so here).  I made these named word clouds for Ella and her heart friends and these were used as profile pictures and shared across social media sites.  

                           
Congenital Heart Defect Awareness week 7-14th February

In March we donned our odd socks again to raise money for DS awareness day and Ella was featured in the 'Lose the Label' campaign.  The photography campaign was started by Michelle, mum to Mara who has Down's Syndrome.  She wanted to get the message of person first language across to people, to help others understand that people with DS are so much more than a diagnosis and that it does not define them. You can find the campaign pictures on her Facebook page Lose the Label...


I was again asked to take part in Mencap's Learning Disability week. This years focus was 'firsts' and I chose to write about the 'first' that has meant the most to me so far...Ella's first smile.  I also loved reading other contributors posts, especially those who have older children and are a few years ahead of us. We still have so many firsts to look forward to and celebrate... 


And this winter, I've supported the Matalan and Alder Hey charity campaign by wearing my alphabet scarf.  All proceeds from their sales go to the Alder Hey charity, one that I will always support after the care we all received while Ella had her heart surgery.  I've not been quick enough to get the girls their scarfs yet as they sell out so fast - I'll be quicker next time they're in stock!  

My #scarfie

And there's been a massive change in Ella over the last year too.  One of the great things about writing a blog is being able to go back and revisit where we have come from.  This year, she has grown in confidence, become a lot more grown up and has started her pre-school year at her new nursery before starting school next September.  Her communication continues to get better every week and she's now putting 2-3 word sentences together, telling stories and giving a narrative (just tonight she came and said 'Lucy dummy bath oh dear' telling me that Lucy had thrown her dummy in the bath).  Of course, Makaton continues to be an important communication tool as well and we've found that it has also helped Lucy to make herself understood and support her speech. We've made attempts at potty training Ella this year (I'll write a post on our efforts soon) but will revisit this again in the new year and have another go.  

She's become really good company with her ever present mischievous streak and wicked sense of humour... 

In June, I attended my first bloggers conference.  Attending Brit Mums Live was brilliant and I had a great time, even though I was nervous about going.  I met new people Kanchan 'intrepid misadventurer', Emma from +Adventures of Adam, Katrina aka +Mummy Whiskers  Amanda at 'The Family Patch', Carin at Artfully Carin and have loved reading their blogs over the last 6 months (even though I am bad at leaving comments - another New Years Resolution right there!).  I also finally met  in person the inspiring and charismatic Hayley from Downs Side Up.  There were a range of workshops to attend, brands galore as well as brilliant, empowering and emotional key note speeches (Emma Freud & Benjamin Brooks-Dutton).  A very inspiring and affirming couple of days - especially nice when meeting people you didn't know but you did know each others blogs.  You forget sometimes when you click the 'publish' button that people do sometimes stop by and read what you've written!  I'm looking forward to BritMums Live 2015 already...


In August I was honoured to be bridesmaid at the wedding of our good friends Nicola and Brian.  Ella was also given the honour of being a flower girl along with Rosie from The Future's Rosie.  We were put in touch with Nicola and Brian by our local Down's Syndrome group as they were facing heart surgery with their 6 month old son.  We had recently been through Ella's surgery and we went along to their house to meet them when Ella was about 8 months old.  We kept in touch and visited them at Alder Hey when Daniel had his surgery a few weeks later... And 4 years on and Ella and Daniel have grown up together and Nicola and I have become great friends.  A nanny by profession, Nicola also helps us with childcare - giving up her lie ins three mornings a week as I throw Ella and Lucy over her front doorstep at 7am so I can get to work on time (a million thank you's lovely lady) xxx


2014 has been a year of change and a year of collaboration.  There are lots of blogs about Down's Syndrome out there, all sharing experiences, telling a story and all seeking to challenge perceptions and educate society.  And by linking together as #TeamT21 we can be a bigger and more effective voice.  

Earlier in the year, I wrote these words...

"I know I am merely a drop in the ocean of change. But every drop creates a ripple. And along with all the other drops creating ripples we are collectively creating a wave.  

Together, we are a powerful force - changing attitudes, challenging preconceptions and raising awareness." 


As I mentioned earlier, in September, Ella started her new nursery.  She absolutely loves it and has settled in well.  We've made a decision about which school we'd like to send her to next September and the first steps have been made to put in place a Educational Health Care Plan for her.  In starting her new nursery, we had to say an emotional farewell to the day nursery at my work she had been attending since she was 9 months old.  I will never be able to thank the staff enough for their input with Ella during her early years (and their continued care of Lucy too!).  It was only fitting that after their recent OFSTED inspection that the nursery received a rating of outstanding...   


The two nursery workers who are Makaton tutors

And the blog, along with lots of other things has had to take more of a back seat this year. Ian is currently working away from home having a go at his dream job with the Essex & Herts Air Ambulance.  So I've been thrown into life as a part-time single mum which doesn't leave much time for, well anything! I certainly have a lot more respect and admiration for all my single-parent friends - I don't know how you do it. I also took on some new challenges at work, so life has been anything but quiet over the last 6 months.  Hopefully more time for writing and blog related activities next year.

                                      

                                      

We've packed a lot in this year and I get the feeling 2015 will be just as hectic!  



Happy New Year everyone xx



2014 
In loving memory of three influential and lovely ladies who we lost this year
Gran Tyrrell
Granny Judson
Grandma Marsh
XxX

Sunday, 21 December 2014

{Proud Moments} - December 2014

There's a lovely little thing that happens every month in the 'Future of Downs' Facebook group. 

We celebrate our children's milestones and share what's made us proud. We do this on the 21st to represent the three copies of chromosome 21 present in Down's syndrome.And there's no such thing as an achievement too small. 
There's a whole lot of love and pride bursting from the members every month - and quite rightly! 
Proud moments happen everyday.  I'll be sharing ours on the 21st of each month. 

Not anything specific this month, I'm just proud of my two little ladies all that they have achieved this year and their sisterly love! 





Wishing all of you a happy and peaceful Christmas xxx
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