Sunday, 13 April 2014

Living arrows 15/52 -

The time, place, family and story behind the picture may be different. But if you look back through many a baby photo album there are certain scenes that get re-enacted time and time again. 

A brand new, pink baby in a Moses basket, the first taste of food from a spoon, first time on the swings... Or the bathing the baby in the kitchen sink shot...


Monday, 7 April 2014

Living arrows 14/52 - snuggles

Today was mostly wet and miserable. This afternoon while Lucy napped, Ella and I cuddled on the chair and watched some TV.  It's very rare these days that it's only Ella and I - makes every little snuggle more important xx

Saturday, 5 April 2014

Living arrows 13/52 - my little artist

Ella just loves drawing. She often asks for 'paper' and will sit and draw at her little table for ages. It seems to be the one activity that holds her attention and calms her inner whirlwind for a time. Her favorite thing to draw at the moment is a face, asking you to draw her a 'big circle' and then she tells you to draw a mouth, eyes, ears, nose, sometimes glasses and always curly hair! 

Last summer we came across a fab easel in a local charity shop. During the hot days it lived with her chalks, crayons and paper outside. When it got cooler I put the easel in the kitchen with the intention of putting it away until the summer but I found Ella would gravitate to it and it was useful to keep her occupied while I was in the kitchen. So it has become a permanent feature. And she's getting good at 'mark making' - lines, scribbles and attempts at circles too. I often come into the kitchen to find a new 'picture' on her chalkboard (and sometimes she even decorates the kitchen cupboards too...)





Monday, 24 March 2014

Friday, 21 March 2014

Living arrows 11/52 - raising awareness xx

So, breaking with the norm a bit here.. A video rather than a picture but it's World Downs Syndrome awareness week and this sums it up nicely xx

Monday, 17 March 2014

Lose the label campaign

This week is Down's Syndrome Awareness week - there couldn't be a more appropriate time for Ella to be featured in the powerful and emotive photo campaign entitled 'Lose the Label'...

It took a long time, but I don't think about Down's syndrome every day any more. 

And I don't see it any more either. I just see Ella. 


I know that won't be the same for other people who see her or meet her. No matter how I see my girl, the fact she has Down's syndrome will always be the first thing most people will notice about her. 

Yet, the fact other people see Down's syndrome first is not in itself a bad thing. It is after all a big part of who Ella is.  As I've said before, it doesn't define her or what she is capable of, but it will always be there and will always be noticeable to others.  If someone has a broken leg and is wobbling around on crutches with their leg in plaster, chances are you're going to notice their broken leg before you get the measure of the rest of them. The difference comes in how an outward disability or injury is then perceived by others.   

I often wonder what stereotypes people assume when they see Ella (some people are great 'experts' and just love to tell you all about your own child)... 'I bet she's so loving... likes Music... Loves to dance... Always happy... An easy child...'  

I've found that Ella is so easily put into a box by most people as soon as they meet her.  And yes, she can be all of those things some of the time but at the moment she is mainly just a stroppy, stubborn three year old with a fierce defiant and independent streak. Like anybody else, she has likes and dislikes, her own little quirks and a wide range of emotions. She takes toys away from her sister, has a slight obsessive compulsive need to shut doors and has a special ability to seek out the one person sat on their own in any given social setting and start 'chatting' to them (whether they like it or not).  

So, I've learnt through experience that there is a need to banish the misconceptions and stereotypes and to reinforce the fact that everyone is unique despite their outward appearance, whatever that may be. 

I came across the 'Lose the label' campaign on Facebook a while ago. Beautiful pictures of children and adults with Down's syndrome all with the same simple yet powerful phrase added to them. The pictures show children playing, dancing, walking, crawling, smiling, laughing, enjoying hobbies and holidays, crafts and sports. 

The campaign is about seeing and putting the person first, not their disability or syndrome. Ella is not a 'Down's child' or a 'Downs'.  Neither is she a 'sufferer' or 'victim' of Down's Syndrome. 
I have Down Syndrome. I am not Down Syndrome. I am Ella


A million and one things before she is a child with Down's Syndrome.
Our Ella Bean xx

View the 'Lose the Label' facebook page here.  Follow the campaign on twitter - search for @Lose_the_label.

Friday, 14 March 2014

Living arrows 10/52 - First of Spring...

Lovely afternoons in the garden with my girls this week.  Lets hope this lovely weather continues!




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